I
imagine that most of us try to recreate those classic summer memories
that we so cherish. After all, my kids will love swimming in a freezing
cold river in New Hampshire's White Mountains, right?
Maybe.
Probably not.
As
my kids -- ages 3 and 1 -- get older, I realize that my experiences and
memories are just that, mine. Trying to recreate what we enjoyed
growing up is not the way to make memories for our kids.
Amazingly
enough, I find the best way is to just let those moments happen. We
need to allow them to make their own memories. You can do your best to
create a perfect vacation, but the most important thing is being
together and sharing time away from the normal routine.
So
this summer, I'm gonna worry less about big plans and perfection and
instead try to enjoy the simple joys of being together. Sharing time
with those we love and care about - that's the perfect summer day.
